Honesty is the best policy
Honest people are trustworthy, sincere, and genuine. They display dignity and earn respect from peers and
others in the community. Although telling the truth is not always easy, teaching young people the value of
honesty, is important. Without it, dishonest habits, such as lying and cheating, can become a big problem.
Honesty is crucial for success in all areas of life, including relationships, school, and jobs. Honesty is Asset
29 of Search Institute’s 40 Developmental Assets, the qualities, experiences, and relationships that help
young people grow up healthy, caring, and responsible.
Here are the facts
Research shows that young people are more likely to grow up healthy when they tell the truth, even when
it’s not easy. Honesty leads to less violence and reliance on alcohol and other drugs. About 66 percent of
young people, ages 11–18, say they tell the truth even when it’s not easy, according to Search Institute
surveys. People who are honest value diversity, good health, and success in school. They also make
Tips for building this asset
To instill the value of honesty, adults need to talk about it, model it, and explain why it’s important. Work
with your family, school, and community to come up with rules about honesty and the consequences for
dishonesty. Encourage the young people you know to make a personal commitment to tell the truth—and
you do the same. Honestly admit to your own successes and mistakes.
Also try this
In your home and family: Don’t overreact or be accusatory if you suspect that your child is lying to
you. Instead, give her or him the opportunity to tell the truth by asking questions, such as “Do you
think I may be struggling with believing you right now?”
In your neighborhood and community: Model honest behavior. For example, return extra change
if you receive too much from a store clerk.
In your school or youth program: Discuss what it means to be honest. Ask whether there are
situations in which it’s better to tell a “little white lie.”